She said, I said…useless battle cry
For some reasons I want to document this because I really like how I came up with my response to this. But I admit, I’m the one who started this with some rather harsh comments (can’t help it eh) and I just came up with very well said excuse…I just hope she won’t get to visit my blog by any chance. Hehe! Besides, she’s not the first person who ever gets disappointed with me (creep!).
She said:
excuse me….did i force you to do so? you are not the only friend i got in the net…ok… i dont sound pathetic asking for comments.thats what friends usually do? y do you sound bitter? anyway… i didnt expect you to say this… you usually are very nice…i am so dissapointed….
I said:
well, sorry to hear (or read) u see it that way…anyway, ure entitled 2 ur own opinion as well as I am to mine. But remember i also said ‘im so sorry 2 say this’ and ‘im concerned’? obviously, u just ignored that coz ur first impulse is to be defensive.
look, i didnt mean to hurt ur feelings or anything…and I KNOW perfectly that it’s not really from me that ud like to receive comments…uve said it urself, ‘that’s what friends usually do’…and im telling u, that’s exactly my point…u dont have to ask 4 it and i wont tell u again how that made u sounded like…for all we know, u cud have other reasons y ure asking 4 it…and u would not like 2 hear anything else from me about it (for sure)…
u didnt have to make a big deal out of it especially if the opinion came from somebody who’s not that important to u…u could’ve just ignored it and move on..u dont hav to react if u really dont care or if doesnt count for u, right?
glad though that u finally figured one more thing…(reality check) that i am NOT TOO NICE. Congrats!
question: who can guess what i had told her that made her react this way? (100 points)
